Endure girlfriend and old lover broken
Ask him what he intends to do, he said that the most important thing at present is career. Feelings matter.
“Looking for a girlfriend next time will definitely not take appearance as the first element.
He said, “I hope that my future partner can care about each other and be physically close to each other. In addition to being pure in character and good in character, he must also respect his parents.
“I listened to his whisper, and I was a little sad but pleased.
Fortunately, the young people at this stage have already been very clear about what they need. It is sad that if love can be realized by conditions, then what else can be ignored in this world?
Oral Records Gao Gaoshu Shu Xin’s transcripts like her, but it doesn’t force me and she are both from Sichuan. In current words, they are both “post-80s”.
We are classmates in secondary school.
At that time everyone was eighteen or nineteen years old, and youth was invincible.
I remember when we first started military training, she was right in front of me. I have loved her since then. She felt innocent and fresh at that time, that kind of beautiful beauty.
In fact, I was a very pure student at that time, and I had never been in love in the past.
I didn’t tell her I liked her, but I was just happy to see her every day.
I remember once she caught a cold, and I ordered a song for her on the radio. At that time, our school sent a small radio to everyone, so many students heard the song I ordered for her, and everyone knew me.Like her thing.
It’s just that I never told her personally, I think she can feel it.
I remember the next day when I sang the song, I went to the pedestrian street and bought her a “talisman” and gave it to her. This was the first time I gave a gift to my beloved girl.
In the second year of my secondary school expertise, because I started a company in Guangzhou, I needed someone to help me. I also felt that I couldn’t learn too much at school, so I left the school and came to Guangzhou to help I set up a company.
Because I didn’t establish a relationship at school, I came to Guangzhou and wrote one or two letters, but I didn’t contact them later.
It was not convenient to make a phone call without a cell phone.
After spending a second in Guangzhou, a past classmate asked me: Do you still feel her?
What did I say?
My classmates persuaded me to give up, saying that after I left, the school management has not been very good, and she also did not like reading, and went out to play with a group of people every day, sing and drink, and sometimes stayed away at night.
The meaning of the classmate is obvious, that is to say that she behaves very badly. After listening to it, I was very low for a while, and my heart was very cold, and I felt that her pure image in my mind suddenly disappeared.
In desperation, I decided to give up my first love, because such a girl is definitely not suitable for me.
Later, I met a girl from the Northeast in Guangzhou and talked for a few months.
She is really good to me, very caring and caring. When it is cold, she will call me to remind me to change clothes. When I am busy, she will ask me if I am tired.
But I have been hesitating about this relationship.
Because her education and knowledge are different from mine, I have been worried that this gap will become an obstacle to our future life.
Five months later, I still resolved to break up, and I still remember the passing romance, and I have no regrets in my heart.
Until the second half of 2003, a female student in Guangzhou suddenly told me that she was coming to Guangzhou.
At that time, I didn’t have much surprise in my heart, because I felt that since she has changed, we can no longer continue to lead.
Although I have always liked her in my heart, but I know that emotional matters cannot be forced.
At this time she had graduated from technical secondary school and worked for a while in the local area before coming to Guangzhou to work.
Because of these thorns in her heart, when she came to Guangzhou, I was not very enthusiastic about her, only when she was an ordinary classmate and friend.
I used to believe she would change. So we were all busy in Guangzhou, and sometimes we would get together to chat and eat.
Sometimes on my birthday, I would call my classmates together, and my female classmate in Guangzhou often asked her to make an appointment.
The turn of events happened in the Spring Festival in 2005. I just returned to Guangzhou after the Spring Festival in my hometown, and because she didn’t go home for the Chinese New Year, she heard that I came back and said she came to see me.
That night, she came to me after work. Who knew that she encountered a motorcycle scooter on the road? Fortunately, her bag was not snatched and no one was injured, but she was frightened.
So when she saw me, she ran over to have me cry.
I was really distressed at that time and held her tightly.That is, from this day, we really determined the relationship and she became my girlfriend.
Actually, I have always loved her since school, so after being in love, I treat her very well, and I really treat her as a marriage partner.
I have never thought about her previous. I think she is still young, and she may have been playing and growing up. I believe my love will change her for me.
Not long after falling in love, she moved over to live with me. At that time, she worked at a gas station and often had to work night shifts, which was very hard.
So after we lived together, she told me that she wanted to resign and rest for three months, and didn’t want to be so tired.
I agreed without thinking about it. At the time, I was starting a company in partnership with a friend, and my financial situation was better.
So she resigned, and slept at home every day. When she woke up, she went out shopping and shopping. Of course, I never let her lack money.
I have a lot of trust in her. Sometimes she hangs out with her friends, comes back late or simply lives with friends, and I say nothing.
We had a great time during those days, and of course there were minor conflicts.
For example, we had a quarrel or something. We had a quarrel just after we lived together for a week. She packed her things away and I coaxed her back the next day.
I found her to be a self-centered person, not very considerate, and not very concerned about others.
She doesn’t like to do housework, and most of my meals are made by me.
Sometimes I’m really tired and I see that the floor at home is very dirty, but if I don’t say it, she won’t sweep or drag.
Of course, these are trivial matters. I don’t care. I feel uncomfortable in my heart, but since I love her, I must tolerate her shortcomings.
Three months later, I asked the client to find her a less hard job, and the life just passed on like this.
I also took her back to my hometown, and my family loved her.
I really care for her. I am a very careful person. She has a cold. I will buy her medicine. For her birthday, I will have a birthday party for her and order a cake.
But on my birthday, she asked me if I wanted to buy a gift.
But inwardly, I also very much hope to receive her gift, because this is a kind of heart, but she never bought it.
I was busy during that time, but as long as I was free, I would drive her to work, but no matter how busy I was, she didn’t care if I was tired.
My heart is not without loss, but I can still tolerate the divisions in these sections of life.
How can I believe you one day in October 2007, she said that she would go shopping with an old colleague, and she would not come back at night, staying at the old colleague’s house, I said okay, you go.
Two days later, I happened to meet her old colleague. I said how well you went shopping that day. The old colleague was very strange. No, we didn’t go shopping.
I said that she didn’t live in your house at night?
My old colleague said no.
I froze for a while, so I can’t say anything more.
Maybe her old colleague saw my face and knew something was wrong. I called her as soon as I left.
In the evening, I cooked at home and waited for her. When she came back, she said you already knew, and I won’t hide you. Actually, we are not two people, but three people.
I was taken aback. I didn’t know anything before she said it, but she thought I knew it, so she had to tell me frankly that she had a boyfriend with me before, andThey didn’t break after I was together, and there were occasional contacts, and she went to him that night.
I was stunned for a long time, totally unacceptable in my heart.
But I still say that if you can be completely separated from him, we can still be together.
She asked me how long it took for her to separate. I thought it was weird. Does the breakup need to be continuous?
But I still say half a month.
I didn’t sleep that night, and went out for a lap at five in the morning, except that she slept very well and knew nothing.
The next morning, I told her I couldn’t stand such a blow, let’s break up.
I thought I could forgive all her shortcomings, but now I find that I cannot forgive betrayal.
She started packing and I went to the company.
At noon she slammed my phone and I didn’t listen.
In the afternoon, she ran to my company. I was outside at the time. She called me on the company phone. As soon as I heard the phone call, she cried.
She cried and said she didn’t want to break up, and explained that she only accompanied the man to climb the mountain that day, not living with him at night, but living with his sister.She wished I could give her another chance and vowed to never see him again.
My heart hurts, but I really like her too, so I said okay, and I will give you another chance.
In this way we lived together again and again, with constant contradictions and constant quarrels, but as long as it was not a matter of principle, I tried to tolerate forgiveness.
This was until the end of last year. One day she called and said she would go to the disco with her friends and come back later.
I said you try to come back as early as possible, it’s too late for a girl to be safe.
Because I knew that some young people were crazy in that kind of ballroom, and even ecstasy, so I didn’t like her going to that kind of place, and she agreed at that time.
But at 10 o’clock in the evening, I called her. She said that she had just finished dinner and was about to go to the ballroom. I said it was too late. I had to go back to the ballroom several times before coming back. Do n’t go tonightGo back next time.
She said no, she was going.
I was very angry at that time, and said that if you go, do n’t come back, she said not to come back.
That night, she did not return. I did not sleep all night and was very angry. I did not care much about her when she returned the next day.
When she was at work on the third day, she called me and said that she would not return at night and did not want to return.
I thought about it very seriously, and then told her, if you don’t want to come back, let’s break up.
She said they broke up and broke up, then went home and took her things away.
For almost a month, I couldn’t sleep every night, thanks to my friends who accompanied me.
Later on the Spring Festival, I returned home, and my parents’ understanding and accessibility gradually made me recover from the pain of love.
I know now that I am still in the entrepreneurial period of my career, I need to concentrate on my career. As for love, let it be.
But the next time I fall in love next time, I will not be based on the other person’s appearance, not on personality.
She must be a girl who cares about others, understands others, and is filial and considerate.
Of course, I hope to get married before the age of 30. Family is very important to me. I will take good care of my business.
Not long ago, I was doing a show with Taiwanese female writer Wu Danru. She said that the translation of her recent new book is “Love, Either You Get It or You Learn It”. In fact, everyone will get it in love, but whether you get happinessPain, happiness or loss.
Whatever we get, the most important thing is that we must learn something in love.
You may not be able to learn wisdom or strategy, but at the very least, you must learn to know yourself and understand that what you need is a certain relationship.